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Can I change the butterfly poem shown in the images on the inside cover?
Yes, you are more than welcome to have a different poem, part song lyrics or text inside that is meaningful to you. You can also choose to have nothing at all on the inside cover. The character limit for the inside cover is 350 characters max (including spaces).
How is the A5 notebook personalised?
You can choose between having your notebook personalised in silver foil print, gold foil print, black foil print or engraved to the outsideĀ (turquoise colour can be engraved only).Ā
Pens
Each personalised butterfly memorial notebook comes with a pen that complements your chosen notebook colour with either a silver or gold trim.Ā
Do you have any other designs?
Yes, I have a number of grief journals available from my website with different designs suitable for the loss of a father,Ā loss of a mother, loss of a wife, loss of a husband, loss of a son, loss of a daughter, loss of a child, loss of a sister, loss of a friend, loss of a nan, loss of a grandad, etc.
You can find them all here.
How quickly can I expect to receive my notebook after ordering?
You can checkĀ our current waiting times on ourĀ postage information page here.
Are the pages inside the personalised notebook blank?
Our personalised in memory journals are blankĀ with lined pages ready to be filled with letters and thoughts to your loved one. I include a bookmark with every grief notebook order that has a link to a page with grief writing prompts and ideas to help when a blank page feels overwhelming. If you are looking for a more structured grief journal with prompts to help, you can find ourĀ guided grief journal here.
Tell me more about your notebooks
Each personalised notebook:
- Can include your own message inside
- Contains 96 pages (192 sides)
- Has blank date marks on each page
- Uses smooth 100gsm paper
- Is sewn-bound to lie flat when open
- Comes ready to gift
Notebook dimensions and information
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How will my notebook arrive?
Each journal comes inside Ā of a "The Self-care Journal co." expandable notebook envelope, which is really lovely for gift giving. My standard postage is via Royal Mail Tracked 24.
Can I include a gift message?
Yes you can. There is a space for a note at checkout where you can add your message, or you can send me an email after ordering.
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My personalised notebooks:
Can have a custom message inside
I can print a custom message to the inside cover of my personalised notebooks, making for a really unique gift and keepsake.
Are made to order
I start every order with a blank book, so all of my designs can be tweaked. Just pop me a message if you'd like something changed.
Will be packed with love
I get so many comments on how beautifully packed my journals are. You don't need to ask especially, I do this for every order ā¤ļø